I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x. The standard principles of day game apply. But it is important to be ruthlessly honest with yourself about how you feel about it. No one knows your situation the way you do. He has never said a disparaging word about his mother. True Believer Mos base their actions on a set of priorities that make no sense to Nomos. Its always been I who is being tested for patience,loyalty and trusting and trying to adjust with his unpredictable time schedule. YOUR prayers are just as efficacious as a priesthood holders are.
Needless to say, his top choices were not near my family and friends. Now, he has just started a new training in a new country and i am so lonely here. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. Somehow snow days when everyone else is off, I feel like my husband is the only one working I know there are many but it is very hard. II do wish you luck. My plan was to start school as soon as I got married but when he was told he would be going to another hospital, my masters got put on hold.
Everyone seems to be supporting the idea that he is just too busy, but the truth is we over the internet can't judge his intent. As a non-Mormon male widower Catholic contemplating marrying a devout temple recommended widow, I thank you all for the wonderful blog. I would never convert. It's what I agnostic atheist exmo do with my girlfriend reasonable TBM. After dating a doctor for 5 years and finally realizing that what I'm dealing with is an excessive need for being put on a pedestal and adulation by mainly female colleagues of lower professional rank nurses I decided to move on. I'm not going to live my life in regret I know it sounds terrible but you gotta do what you gotta do. Can you live your whole life with a husband you doesnt or never will believe in the mormon church. It has to do with their character. I have been a doctor's wife for almost 8 years. We are not judged only for what we do but why we do it.
I am emotionally mentally and heartily attached to him. Have been MD in good relationship for 25 years with kids etc but key is that my wife has her own life and works as hard as I do at her own career and isn't caught up in my world. I often think about what I would tell my daughters if one day they tell me that they are dating a doctor……. Not having expectations, as others mentioned, is also key to reducing feelings of frustration. During those years, I think we had about 5 dinner dates. And you know what. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. Yes, it is bad. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. At that point, I would have gotten half of everything we own.